Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Seven Simple Steps to Living a Happier Life

Happiness is that elusive thing we are all striving for and hoping to find. Everyone seeks to be happy and live a more fulfilling life.

Happiness is mostly an attitude, a feeling of satisfaction with yourself and your place in the world. Here are some tips for living a happier, more fulfilled life.

Learn to Relax: Take the time to enjoy the small things in life, don't rush or hurry, and just enjoy being. Work on reducing the amount of stress in your life whether it is work hours, time commitments, or other demanding situations.

Practice Forgiveness: People who hold onto anger and grudges tend to have more health problems and fewer friendships than those who have learned to let go and forgive. Old resentments and arguments only pull us down and hurt ourselves. You've heard the expression, "Would you rather be right or would you rather be happy?". Choose to be happy and let the past go.

Experience Joy: Laugh more often, sing silly songs, put on some music and dance. Express the joy that is inside you physically. Create an atmosphere around you that is carefree.

Smile More: Not only does it make you look better but it helps your health too. Studies have shown that people who smile more often are healthier and more successful. Grin and show it.

Focus on the Future: Set some optimistic long term goals for yourself and then pursue them with passion. The effort that you exert toward these long term goals will bring you satisfaction with every bit of progress that you make.

Be a Friend: Strive to develop happy positive relationships with people who have common interests. Get involved with activities with those who share your hobbies. Take the time and the effort to establish good relationships with people by supporting them and giving them your attention. Surround yourself with people who are positive and beneficial to your life and your goals.

Give to Others: Oftentimes when we are struggling it is hard to see the world outside our own sphere of anguish. That is why it is important that we take the time to help other people out of their despair and assist them in getting their lives back on track. Whether you are helping a friend with their home improvement project or helping a stranger by donating your time to their charitable cause, giving back to others helps everyone involved.

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